A Family is a Gift That Lasts Forever...

A Family is a Gift That Lasts Forever...

Thursday, July 21, 2016

Rest in Peace, Bella

Bella, our dog, passed away.  She got really really sick on a Friday or Saturday and showed symptoms of pain and uneasiness.  We thought she may be constipated because she couldn't seem to poop.  We decided to take her in to the vet, who did some x-rays and other tests to find no determining results.  They thought maybe she had digestive issues and gave us some special canned food to give her.  We were leaving for vacation to Holiday World, so we got her taken care of and sent her to Joan's house for a few days, explaining to Joan how sick she'd been.  Joan is wonderful and treated her so kindly.  She watched Bella deteriorate over the day and look so dreadfully in pain.  Joan said she hopped up on the couch with difficulty and curled up there.  After a while her breathing got very heavy, and Joan sat with her and said a prayer with her to be at peace.  Bella slipped away that night, a peaceful passing, though we don't know how much pain she really was in.

On returning from our trip, we collected Bella from the vet and dug her a grave in our woods on the property.  Nate had a little excavator.  As he dug, he hit a decent sized rock, a perfect size for her headstone.  What a coincidence.  Or not!  It was meant to be.  We buried her and will prepare her stone with her name and place it there when ready.

The boys were hit hard.  They loved Bella so much.  She was definitely challenging to take care of with such a big family, but even so, they loved her.  We all did.  The boys both cried themselves to sleep that first night they learned of her passing.  The burial helped with closure and we had a simple funeral for her, sharing the highlights of her life with us.  We know she is jumping high and playing fetch in heaven now.  We will never forget her.





Wednesday, July 20, 2016

Holiday World

For Bill and Linda's 50th Wedding Anniversary, all Nates siblings families gathered to Holiday World in Santa Clause, IN, a big water park and amusement park. We camped at Camp Rudolph in fancy air conditioned cabins all next to each other.  We spent dinners gathered together and had devotionals by the patriarch and matriarch of the Routsong family.  We celebrated with cake and sparkling cider and shared photos of the family old and young.  Beth put together a beautiful 12x12 photo book for their 50th with photos starting at the very beginning of Bill and Lindas story.  We all had such a fun time and bonded as a family.





Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Andrea & Dennis

Andrea & Dennis have moved away.  Dennis got a new job position in Arkansas and they are taking off.  Andrea has been such a blessing in our lives.  Their place in our lives was not a coincidence at all.  There are so many things about Andrea & Dennis that prove no coincidence in making our paths cross.  Two years ago when Nathan was born I was still working a ton at Simplx and I was overwhelmed and stressed and unsure how I would possibly be able to care for my newborn and my 4 other kids and continue serving the business and running payroll and doing taxes, etc, etc for the business.  We racked our brains to try to think of someone that could help watch the kids for us.  I didn't like the idea of having to have someone always watch my kids, or to have to take them somewhere to be watched.  I've always felt it my responsibility to care for them.  But I also had obligations to the business so I needed help.  We tossed around different names and even spoke to a few people.  

One day, Nate came home from work and said, "Hey, guess who is moving back to Fort Wayne?"  On Facebook, he had learned that Andrea & Dennis, who had lived here briefly before, were moving back.  Nate didn't make the connection right away, he just saw their post on Facebook and let me know about it.  But right then, I knew exactly who could help us.  I told Nate, "It's Andrea!"  and he didn't understand at first.  I said, "that is who needs to be with our kids!"  So we had them over and asked if she'd be willing and she was so excited.  They always wondered why they were coming back here, but Andrea says that she knows part of the reason they returned, was to serve our family.  Now, 2 years later, our kids think of Andrea & Dennis as a third set of grandparents.  They treat them like grandparents and the Keplingers treat my kids like their grandchildren.  Andrea treats me like her daughter; she worries about me and confides in me.  We have become such great friends.  I am so appreciative of her service in our home.  

Earlier this year when we found out we were expecting another baby, I realized that work is getting just too difficult.  The company has grown tremendously, causing my work to grow tremendously.  With another child on the way, my time and availability is shrinking tremendously.  We decided to begin seeking out a replacement for me at work to free me from all of my major responsibilities there.  We found a perfect match and began to move forward to hire her and train her.  During this process, Dennis lost his job.  The Keplingers were uncertain about their future and found possible jobs in other states.  After several interviews, he accepted one in Arkansas and they had to leave mid July.  

The timing is incredulous.  They arrived just in time to help us.  And they moved on just as our need for help diminished.  They are a light in my life.  An answer to prayers and I am certain that Heavenly Father put them in our lives for a reason and the specific time of our need.  I have learned so much from Andy and have confided in her like no other friend in my life.  She knows me and my family and our home better than anyone.  She shone as a light in my crazy complicated and busy world the past 2 years and I will never forget her.  Thank you Andy. 













Thursday, June 23, 2016

Mastadon PFW Basketball Camp

 Cooper attended the Mastadon Purdue Fort Wayne Basketball Camp this year with his friend Noah.  He truly had a blast and loves the sport.  He got to know some of the PFW players and was so excited to get their autographs.  Fun week for Cooper!

Cooper is front and center, cheering hard!





Wednesday, June 22, 2016

Summer Prep Team

 Kaylee joined the Autumn Ridge Prep Swim Team this year. She loved it so much.  She is absolutely adorable and is loving all the coaches.  Its been a great time to learn to swim this year!







Cub Scouts Veteranary Field Trip

 We took the cub scouts to the vet for a field trip to see what an animal hospital is like.  Lots of fun!







Saturday, June 18, 2016

Coop Sparrow

Cooper got all made up and created a wig to look like pirate Captain Jack Sparrow.  He looks a lot like him!!

Friday, June 17, 2016

Tin Caps Baseball Camp Out

 We went to the Fort Wayne Tin Caps Baseball game with the Elliott family.  It was Scout Night, and after the game we set up tents and slept on the baseball field!! Nate took home Dawson & Nathan, but Jax, Coop & Kay and I stayed the night.  They put a movie on the jumbotron and we had a really great time camping on the Tin Caps Field!














Saturday, June 4, 2016

Kaylees Dance Recital

Kaylee was in her first dance recital. She started dance in January, a jazz class with a couple other cute girls. They learned a routine to funky town by Alvin and the Chipmunks. She was nervous but excited and loved going to her jazz class is. We weren't allowed back into the dance floor, but we could watch her on a TV screen in the studio lobby. She was always jumping around having a great time.

When recital time came around, she was nervous for the dress rehearsal. There were two dress rehearsals to prepare for the actual recital. So through practicing at that rehearsals, she was confident and excited. Onstage she was so darn cute. She shit her little hips and smiled so big. She said she was not scared at all. I am so proud of her. I'm glad she has such confidence and we enjoyed helping her have this experience.




Cub Scout Day Camp

Jaxton & Cooper went to cub scout day camp with Ryan & Nate Elliot.  It was pirate themed and lots of fun with friends!


Some of Jaxton's commentary about camp: